After the Gettysburg campaign, in the summer or fall of 1863, Gen.
McLaw's Division of Longstreet's Corps was camped for some weeks near
us in the S.W. end of Spottsylvania County, recruiting and resting
from their labors, and quite a few of their wounded officers were
quartered in nearby plantation residences of friends. I remember
helping to wait on one of them, a Major Jones of South Carolina, who
had his knee shattered by a minnie ball. He said he preferred to
die rather than have his leg amputated and, before long, had that
choice about it, we heard with much regret.
General Humphries, then commanding Barksdale's famous Mississippi
Brigade (after Gen. Barksdale's death at Gettysburg), brought his
family to our house and was frequently there with them. The equally
charming family of his surgeon, Dr. Hill, came also and together with
a number of relatives and friends in McLaw's Division, particularly
in the Richmond Howitzer Battalion, we had a delightfully social time
at old Belair again. It was always open to men in Confederate
uniform -- privates as well as officers, without preference, unless
to private soldiers, whom it was my Mother's custom to see served
first at her table.
Among other members of the Howitzers I recall Lieut. (afterwards
Captain) R. M. Anderson, a cousin whom I last met on his way home after
Appomattox, the saddest man I ever saw. Also young Captain McCarthy of
the other battery, soon after killed, at Cold Harbor, I believe, while
standing on the parapet watching the effect of his shells. Also another
cousin, Travers Moncure, and a friend and relative Mr. William Kean.